There are a few things that you can do when you don't know what to do. When you don't know what to do you must relax and just calm down. One just needs to break away from society and just view the world as an outsider. They need to look how their life is compared to how other people have it. Most people will think that they are worst off than everyone else, but some people actually see that others have it worse than they do. If you are one of the lucky few that get to see that others have it worse than you do then you know that your life isn't as bad as you might think it is. One just needs to find the part of them that sees that their life is so important and hold on to how important it is. Once the person sees that their life isn't that bad, they start becoming happier and happier with their life and help other people that truly need help. And maybe just maybe, the person that was helped by the person that saw a reason for their life will pass on their help towards other people.
Thats what you need to do when you don't know what to do. Just remember relax, calm down, and take a look at your life and see how well off it is.
Most of the time when I get anger at my siblings I feel like I cannot wait to get as far away as I can from all of them. Then after I do star to calm down I remember that some people do have it worse than me. Sometimes I feel bad I about things I complain about in my life when there are people out there who would kill to have what I have. I totally agree that people should focus more on what they do have in life instead of what they don’t.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you that when a person is in a dilemma they need to just calm down and relax. They need to think rationally on how to approach the situation which is hard when you are thinking while you are on panic mode. But most people do tend to over react on situations that they are not use to and it causes them to panic. When they begin to panic their life begins to seem like they have it way off worse than everybody else. Unfortunately there is always someone else who has it off worse than you do, so you should enjoy the good things that you have in your life and not to worry about the little things that bother you because we are only on this planet for a short period of time so we should not waste it thinking on the negative things in life.
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